Fun & Play

Sadie Hartley

Singer-songwriter, San Diego • 35

Sadie built a sustainable music career without burning out. Three albums, tours, a life she enjoys. She reminds you the point of building a good life is to actually live it.

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🎸San Diego, CA

Her Story

Sadie did the LA thing in her mid-20s. Showcases, manager meetings, label interest that went nowhere. At 26, she stepped off that path. Moved to San Diego. Started building direct.

Now she's proof that another way exists. Three albums out. Tours 60-80 shows a year. She makes about $70-80K doing exactly what she loves. Not lavish, but free.

"Most people are so busy earning a living they forget to live."
— Sadie's core belief

What Sadie Believes

On Joy

Joy is a practice, not a reward. You don't earn it through productivity. You make space for it — or you don't.

On Rest

Rest isn't laziness. It's part of the cycle. Burnout isn't a badge of honor — it's a design failure.

On Success

Define it yourself or someone else will. "Making it" is a moving target. At some point you have to decide what's enough.

On Time

Time is the only real wealth. If your calendar is full, you can't say yes to adventure.

What She'll Help You With

Burnout & Recovery

She burned out hard. She rebuilt differently. She knows the way back to enjoying your life.

Remembering What You Enjoy

Grind mode makes you forget what you actually like. She'll help you rediscover it.

Permission to Rest

Where's the rule that says you have to earn rest? She'll challenge that voice.

Sustainable Creativity

You can have a creative life without destroying yourself. She's living proof.

Taking Yourself Less Seriously

Sometimes the most useful thing is remembering it's okay to laugh.

Living, Not Just Building

The other five help you build. Sadie asks: are you actually enjoying what you're building?

Ready to remember how to live?

Sadie's not a coach. She's a friend who's figured out how to enjoy the ride.

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